Dating an emotional guy
Though we always like to think we can vet them out well, once in a while, a guy will trick even the most jaded dater.
I ought to know — it’s happened to me plenty of times.
UPDATED June 17th, 2017 We all know the types: the ladies’ man, the mama’s boy, the commitaphobe, and the nice guy who just wants to be friends (to name a few).
Adding to the non-candidates for adulthood is the man-child.
Patty Blue Hayes, an author and life coach specializing in heartbreak recovering, wrote in an article for Your Tango that 'their calm demeanor and your heightened emotion or sensitivity may trick you into doubting yourself'.
These dudes are stuck in emotional "playpens" preventing them from forming healthy (and intimate) adult relationships and where the women in their lives are in the position of either pushing them around like toddlers in a baby carriage or screaming "Get up and walk on your own! Usually, emotional immaturity isn't obvious right away. If his mother abandoned him, he may be looking for a clingy lady.
Then, there are those who are too afraid of taking the risk of falling in love because they have been hurt too much in their previous relationships.
Ironically, most emotionally unavailable people are easy to spot, quite transparent, showing you their true colors, right from the beginning.
He’s may drink too much at the office party, turn on football during your mother’s Thanksgiving dinner and answer his cell phone at your friend’s wedding.
Like the four-year-old he resembles, he’ll probably pout if corrected.
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They may have suffered through a troubled childhood experience that has wounded them or they now have higher priorities such as their career or taking care of a sick parent.