Pitfalls of dating your boss
There are more than a couple adages that caution against dipping your pen in company ink, a.k.a. getting your honey where you make your money (to name a few).
There’s not one psalm, proverb, or parable, however, in favor of banging someone you work with. Sometimes it works, and you two write a coffee table book together, and sometimes it doesn’t, and he tries to get you fired for canceling a conference call and you have to have an awkward meeting with HR about boundaries.
It’s a trend captured in hit TV series Mad the boss has its pros and cons, as three people who did just that reveal.
Dave and I went to great lengths to keep our relationship secret at work, mindful of his position as managing partner and how people might judge us, not least because of the age gap.
When I spotted the PA job advertised in November that year I applied as I missed my old company.
Please see our article advantages of dating a co-worker for further advice.
According to new reports, the chairman of Restoration Hardware has resigned from his job after the company discovered that he was in a relationship with a 26-year-old female employee. Okay, we get it—sometimes people fall in love at work.
But there's a big difference between getting cozy with a coworker on your level, and dating the boss. If you break up, you're in an awkward spot and, depending on the guy, he could make your work life total hell.
Coworkers might also get jealous and try to sabotage you on the job (lame, but it happens).
Plus, if there's a company policy against it or someone can prove that you've gotten perks as the result of being the boss's girl, you're jeopardizing both of your careers. Get a new job ASAP, advises career expert Alexandra Levit, author of Blind Spots: The 10 Business Myths You Can't Afford to Believe on Your New Path to Success.